What to do when you're offered a job and you need more time to decide

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• Job offers can seriously complicate your life.

• Sometimes, you need more time to mull the opportunity over.

• But, at the same time, you don't want to burn bridges by leaving the hiring manager hanging.

• Here are some tips on how to postpone accepting a job offer like a professional.

How can you delay accepting a job offer without burning bridges?

Landing a job offer is usually good news, but it can prove to be just as stressful as the process of searching for a new gig. Sometimes, it's simply not immediately clear whether or not you should accept the opportunity. In those cases, it's always better to take some time to think things over.

But what's the best way of doing this without seriously ticking off the hiring manager?

"You've finally received that long-awaited job offer, but don't want to jump at the opportunity — nor do you want to seem uninterested," Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert and the author of "Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss Behavior and Thrive in Your Job," told Business Insider.

It's quite a conundrum. So how do you politely stall to ultimately get what you want?

"It's not uncommon for employers to ask for a response within 24 hours, but that doesn't mean you must comply," Taylor explained. "The company may try to push you to make a decision in a short period of time, but a little pushback is often expected, as daunting as that might seem with a prospective employer."

She said even if you plan to take some time with your decision, you should always acknowledge the job offer promptly. "A general rule of thumb is that you can take two to three days for your final response," she said. "If the employer is vague about the requested response time, you may have up to a week, but a lot depends on the circumstances."

Most employers understand that you need time to think over the opportunity and that it's an important decision. If they don't and use hardball tactics, that should be a red flag.

Here are some steps to follow to help you bide time, but stay in the game:

Show excitement and gratitude

You can be enthusiastic and gracious without giving an immediate response, Taylor said. "Let them know that you're very appreciative of the offer, but would like a little time to make an informed decision."

Understand the whole picture

Are there remaining questions you must ask that will help tie up any loose ends? Have all compensation factors been addressed beyond salary, such as bonuses, medical, dental and vision coverage, vacation time, frequency of reviews, 401(k) plans, stock, a company phone, car, personal time off, training, education, and other perks? Have you evaluated the culture and things like your expected hours and commute time?

By asking for more time, you have created room to get more clarification, she explains.

Plus, asking questions is a good way to stall for time.

Ask for a specific amount of time

Give a specific date: "I greatly appreciate this offer and I'm really excited about working with your company. I wonder if I could have until Wednesday to get back to you on this opportunity."

"Stay true to your deadline, or risk the offer being withdrawn," said Taylor.

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